It depends. What cutscene shortener are you using? The latest BG2Tweaks mod no longer causes problems, but the old Ease-of-Use mod does kill the cutscene. If you have that one, try uninstalling it, and rest a few times to see if the cutscene triggers.
Yep, that was the one, and that was teh problem. It took me a little while to ressurect her because the rod of ressurection wasn't working, but I just had my cleric memorize it and rest. Thanks.