The mystery is solved! im not sure the problem was with chloe, but than again it might have been so ill give you a report of the solution. im playing a mage/cleric multiclass and my familiar was out of the backpack when i was teleported to aran. That might have been what triggered her to stay couse when it was in the backpack she followed as she was supposed to..... It might have been that only yoshimo ( hes in my party only untill ive got imoen!) was in abagails room when my party teleported!
Anyway problem solved. Thanks for listening to my whineing and thanks for creating the wonderfull person that is chloe. She made this game worth playing again
Spoiler: Yoshimo leaves when you get Imoen anyway.
I was installing Chloe, and it said there was an error, and to send the debug file to you, Lucy. What should I do? How would that help?