Project Nemesis

First off, I apologize in advance for even making this post. I visit a lot of boards and know how annoying it can be when someone asks a question that can be found by searching but....

Theres just so many mods and so much new information and I've been away from the BG scene for so long ( ) that I have to ask: which mods should I install?

I tried a huge mega installs about 1.5 to 2 years ago. The mods I had installed were:

The baldurdash fixes
BGTTweak
Unfinished Business
D0Quest Tweaks (or something like that)
Big Picture
BGTutu
some of the G3 tweaks
dsotsc
ntotsc
SoS
maybe a few other. It's been so long that i cant remember.

Once I had my install completed I started up the game. I was having a lot of fun too until the dreaded stutter bug kicked in. How common is the stutter bug nowadays anyway?

Now I just want something "relatively" stable. Or at least something that wont pop up with the stutter bug so much. I'm not looking for any extra NPC mods or any of the romance type mods. The npc's and the romance stories of the game were good enough. Though maybe something that expands on the existing npc's would be nice. I would like the game fixes and tweaks. Maybe a few of the big mods like the ones I had. I mainly play a mage or sorceror type for my main character so some mods that are a bit magic focused or with extra spells would be nice.

Which mods should I be looking to download? Thanks in advance for your help.