I do have the latest version of the mod, and eddie and d are in a big loop... d pretends like nothing's happened, and eddie's all screwy and will randomly say that I betray him. I'm going to try to uninstall-reinstall again and see if that fixes anything.
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I also noticed on a new game that I started that Degarden never shows up! Edwina's whinin' and complainin, and I've done all the quests, and I've tried the console command for degarden, as well as bumping up the timer on the lovetalks. I'm on 30, according to shadowkeeper, yet I still have the Mrs. and when I tried to see if the boat trip would trigger the normal smack in the head, Eddie didn't have a problem. So yah. Methinks that I'm screwed somehow. It really sucks, cuz I love this mod, and this is my first time trying to play w/ it.