So, I started a game few days ago and picked up Arath. Had some non-love talks, did the slavers quest and things were ok. Then Arath offered my Charname a night together. I refused him and kept going in game. I did few quests and I had 2 more banters with Arath. They were about Athkatla and Charnames dreams (nothing romantic), so I am wondering if by refusing him, I didnt end the romance and switch to friendship. Did I? Should I go back to the save from before refusing his offer?