Why not post your ideas on the BGEE Forum? Giving the developers good input is the best way of ensuring you get what you want.
I want Gorion's death cut-scene altered along these lines:
The changes I want are along these lines. Tightening the story telling, improving dialogue so Jaheira and Khaleid's joining banter doesn't amount to "Oops! Your dad died, huh? Sorry about that kiddo. Hey! We are going to clear out some mines, wanna be our meatshield?". Stuff like that.
But that's not possible because:
"1. Altering the dialog of the old joinable characters
-We can't do this
2. Altering the dialog of encounterable npc's in the campaign, including minor ones
-small scale text only changes are possible.
I am not exactly whining that BG : EE isn't made to please me. Merely commenting that it isn't an enhanced edition (which should actually enhance the gameplay experience of the original) but is more like an expansion pack. I already dread the mega mod marathons I do of this game and don't really care for more fluff.
Having said that, I am not bashing the work they are doing. If people enjoy this, great! As I said, I might buy this myself. Eventually...