Moliasar

Well i completed the first 3 chapters of the game and left for spellhold with my romance with tashia has a value of 1 in shadowkeeper and the flirt option when i was talking to her. Through spellhold no dialogues (which i take it as normal cause i think no romances dialogues at those chapters) but still my value was 1 and the flirt option still there. When i reached the underdark i had all these things too (i checked all the time) but when i finished the first quest for the drows (save that bitch from the illithids) i went to the tavern (until then my romance with tashia was active) and rest there .When my party woke up the flirt option was gone and the romance value was to 3 without anything to justife this change (such as a dialogue or something). What went wrong? And if i set the romance value back to 1 through shadowkeeper will this save the romance? Why i always get problems with this mod? Thanks in advance ..Greetings!