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I wasn't quite sure if I it was more appropriate to make a new topic for this, but since they're rather menial problems I'll post them here.
I just started playing yesterday and I've just noticed, after reaching westgate that most of my party members never talk to my pc and they just banter amongst themselves. I noticed since I've had Rillithar in my party for quite a long time now and he hasn't yet spoken to her, a few times it seemed like he was going to but instead of a dialog, the pc initiated flirts sort of initiated themselves on their own. I checked the globals on shadowkeeper. Anyway, I don't know what might be wrong here, Aesdale never ever talked to me, and I was under the impression he had a romance too. Only Paraway and Vildamyr have talk to my pc thus far. Is this normal? Just in case, I'll add that my pc is neutral good elf with 18 char, so it couldn't have been about that.
Thanks in advance.