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#361 The Masked Marionette

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Posted 04 May 2004 - 06:30 AM

Firstly, Cybersquirt, you don't have to be rude, y'know? I don't know if I touched a nerve or something, but if I did, I apologise 'cause I didn't intend to do so, but you don't have to get all hostile.

Yes, lots of people are homophobic and homosexuality is still generally seen as "unacceptable", but I really don't think homosexuality in a game would outrage that many people. Not the people that matter, anyway.

It IS kind of irrelevant, though, because no matter what their intent or purpose, Bioware didn't even hint that Imoen was homosexual or bisexual.

I'm not disputing that hetrosexuality is the norm in the game, even in society; I'm disputing Imoen being hetero 'just because every one else is' or because it's the "norm". It's a short-sighted arguement, and not one based on FR standards, but on real-life standards. Do you understand that?


No more short-sighted than the arguements for her being homosexual. Again, I'm sure this has been said before, but where is the evidence that she's anything but? If you or anyone else would care to explain to me why you believe she might be gay or bi, then it might give me incentive to change my mind. But so far, I can't think why you'd think that.
I would read back to see if said evidence or reason has already been given, but I'm afraid I'm far too lazy to sift through twelve pages of arguements, most of which I've actually already read, to check. Besides, a refresh for everyone couldn't hurt, eh?
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#362 Quitch

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Posted 04 May 2004 - 07:32 AM

Just to say, I was 16 until 6 days ago (and still would be, but was born 2 weeks early(more pointless info)) but anyway if I heard anyone my age acting like cybersquirt described, I would probably end up kicking several shades of shit out of them eventually, I'm not male inclined, so I don't find it offensive to me personally but I do have quite a few friends and family who are. And if there is one trait that I do have it is a tendancy to protect those I care about, and it has gotten me into alot of trouble and fights. I don't like people who think they're better because they're straight or bigger or for any other reason,and I've often been labeled 'The bullies, bully' by those who know me

Good for you. Take it elsewhere.

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Posted 04 May 2004 - 08:07 AM

I don't think that we have enough evidence either way to say what she is. If you asked her if she was gay, she'd probably smile and nod. If you asked her if she was straight, she'd laugh and say, "Sure!" It just seems like a question she wouldn't answer - just because.

It seems like if you were to ask her and the mood struck her she would just say she loved only fish or often found her self dreaming of the day when she could work up the courage to proposition your familiar.

This is a hard question to answer. I guess the only real thing to do is to try writing situations for her, and see where her character leads you. Just for the heck of it, I tried a few times to think up PCs that Imoen may even be sexually interested in at all, and that was very, very hard. She doesn't give much away as per her tastes, I'm afraid.

In one situation, I had her sister ask her straight out, "Immy, do you want to sleep with me?" and she just laughed. Laughed and said they slept together all the time, and they should just leave it at that. (That's what happened in my head anyway ^_^ )

I couldn't think of her getting together with anyone she had such a unique, close bond with. Maybe the PC might want that but given her character and her history, I don't think she would go for it. She'd dodge the subject, laugh, joke, tease - but more than likely, she would just try to keep things as they are. The PC is one of the only stable things in her life, the only constant. A constant she would like to keep.

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Posted 04 May 2004 - 11:36 AM

It IS kind of irrelevant, though, because no matter what their intent or purpose, Bioware didn't even hint that Imoen was homosexual or bisexual.

bioWare didn't hint at her being straight, either.

Again, I'm sure this has been said before, but where is the evidence that she's anything but? If you or anyone else would care to explain to me why you believe she might be gay or bi, then it might give me incentive to change my mind. But so far, I can't think why you'd think that.

I wasn't being rude; you'd know if I was being rude. I was being direct or blunt. Frank, if you will, because I'm incredibly frustrated by people, like you, that call for Proof (or evidence) when there is none. How many different times and ways can that be said?

Why do I think she's BI (even though I'm tempted to argue her being lesbian just, among other reasons, to get everyone outraged)? It's my subjective, collective opinion, that's why. The Imoen I see in the game has an open mind and an open heart, and I do not think she would deny someone based soley on their gender.

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Posted 04 May 2004 - 04:33 PM

Here's the thing...that unless there are some descent, if only subtle, clues because heterosexual is the norm it should be that the burden of proof lies to those who would say otherwise.

Its like assuming someone likes to smoke because, although signifigant in number, but a definate minority when there is no evidence to suggest they even lit up in their life. Whle you're certainly entirled to look at someone at random and say that person is gay or that person smokes, your basis is just that, on randomness and opinion.

It may not be fair, but that's the way things work. Without proof, you just got opinion to back you up against what is considered the norm.

Edited by Jinnai, 04 May 2004 - 04:34 PM.

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Posted 04 May 2004 - 10:53 PM

In TOB, Sarevok, in one potential banter, tells Imoen that he knows of her unrequited longing for some one when she interrupts him. In another, she tells Viconia that she would give up her soul for [CharName]. And if she is with you and you return Saravok to the living, if you explore the option of her making the sacrifice, she makes a comment about not being pure any more. Possibly from Irenicus and the torture or possible from her growing awareness of her feelings for [CharName].

Unrequited usually refers to love that is not being returned. Since these can occur no matter what gender [CharName] is, it indicates to me that Imoen is Bi.

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Posted 05 May 2004 - 04:51 AM

Here's the thing...that unless there are some descent, if only subtle, clues because heterosexual is the norm it should be that the burden of proof lies to those who would say otherwise.

Uh, no. There is no burden of proof, that's why it's called an opinion. And it's not like assuming she smokes - what the hell kind of analogy is that? (See? That was rude). Besides, I'm not trying to prove anything - certainly not to ..no, I'll stop now. I'll just laugh my ass off at the call for proof; it has nothing to do with fair, and everything to do with the inability to listen.

Believe it or not, saying that she's straight is an opinion as well.

I'll just sit back, now, and watch all my other points fly overhead or, if you prefer, underfoot. :rolleyes:

Lastly, to retract part of my statement - heterosexuality is hardly the "norm" in the game, it's exclusively heterosexual. When there's only one, norm's don't matter.

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Posted 05 May 2004 - 05:53 AM

Yeah.. if it wasn't obvious, that was me.

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Posted 05 May 2004 - 06:57 AM

if you explore the option of her making the sacrifice, she makes a comment about not being pure any more.


Hmm - I think you are mixing in the Imoen romance dialog and the original Bio. There is no such thing as Imoen discussing her 'purity' in Imoen-Sarevok-PC conversations in original Bio dialogs, although Sarevok does speak about her memory of being tortured, and it is rather graphical.


There is her reaction on Haer-Dalis flirt, she rejects him but rather light-heartedly, and her own attempts to flirt with Keldorn, that convinced me that she is interested in men not women. I am not a fan of old Keldorn but I feel that he is very very 'male' and if she is interested in him, well, that tells me she is heterosexual. But than again - Immy just might be looking for a father figure...

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Posted 05 May 2004 - 06:58 AM

I see someone here hasn't heard of Occam's Razor.

#371 kirkjobsluder

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Posted 05 May 2004 - 07:26 AM

dorotea: Why the assumption that a bisexual person would not be interested in Keldorn because of his masculinity?

Guest: Occam's razor is a guide for building theory, not an ontological proof. Furthermore it has minimal applicability in terms of looking at fiction.

There just really is not enough there to make an assumption one way or another. I played through Chloe and didn't find the narrative of Imoen as bisexual to be incompatible with the base game. In terms of sexuality with Imoen, I think that the game provides close enough to a blank slate that any good story can be told.

So the question for me comes down what sort of story is Quitch planning to tell about Imoen's sexuality. How does Imoen's sexuality matter? Is there going to be a romance between the PC and Imoen? If so, how is that romance going to be constructed? Is Imoen going to be attracted to other NPC's. If so, which ones?

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Posted 05 May 2004 - 07:32 AM

I see someone here hasn't heard of Occam's Razor.

"Pluralitas non est ponenda sine neccesitate" (or "Plurality should not be posited without necessity", if you prefer).

It's hardly relevant, though ? to me it looks like Cybersquirt (who I assume you're arguing against) is arguing that in this case, there is necessity.

Or, to take a more literal approach ? I don't think Imoen shaves.
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#373 Laufey

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Posted 05 May 2004 - 07:48 AM

There just really is not enough there to make an assumption one way or another. I played through Chloe and didn't find the narrative of Imoen as bisexual to be incompatible with the base game. In terms of sexuality with Imoen, I think that the game provides close enough to a blank slate that any good story can be told.

That's pretty much how I see it too. My own general impression of Imoen is that she's hetero, or at least predominantly hetero - but I can easily believe in an Imoen attracted to females as well, since I don't believe there's anything in the game that actually contradicts it.

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Posted 05 May 2004 - 08:36 AM

I see someone here hasn't heard of Occam's Razor.

"Pluralitas non est ponenda sine neccesitate" (or "Plurality should not be posited without necessity", if you prefer).

It's hardly relevant, though ? to me it looks like Cybersquirt (who I assume you're arguing against) is arguing that in this case, there is necessity.

Or, to take a more literal approach ? I don't think Imoen shaves.

The other side to the issue is in what ways does Imoens homosexuality or bisexuality add additional entites to the theory? If you want to argue that Imoen is most likely heterosexual because a majority of human beings are heterosexual, well, that's Bayesian Statistics rather than Occam's Razor.

But I would argue that Occam's Razor is really bad for creating good narrative. How much fun would Hamlet be if Hamlet, after seeing his father's ghost, just slits Claudius's throat at the breakfast table? How much fun would it be if Claudius just hires a Swed to off Hamlet? Large chunks of the dramatic tension comes from how the two antagonists create these elaborate schemes to set the other up resulting in a rising colateral body count and the Swedish invasion.

So really, I could care less about what is default, probable, likely or simple. The simple story would be Imoen leaving the adventuring life for a stable household. I want a good story.

Good: Well-conceived character development that develops Imoen as a character.

Good: Talking about Imoen's sexuality in a plot context where it is relevant.

Bad: Writing Imoen as bisexual because we need bisexual characters in the game.

Bad: Writing about bisexuality that simply works by playing the pronoun game.

Bad and Offensive: Writing Imoen as bisexual because bi chicks are hot.

#375 JPS

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Posted 05 May 2004 - 08:54 AM

But I would argue that Occam's Razor is really bad for creating good narrative. How much fun would Hamlet be if Hamlet, after seeing his father's ghost, just slits Claudius's throat at the breakfast table? How much fun would it be if Claudius just hires a Swed to off Hamlet? Large chunks of the dramatic tension comes from how the two antagonists create these elaborate schemes to set the other up resulting in a rising colateral body count and the Swedish invasion.

Yeah. I was hoping that we'd get away easier by just saying that brother Ockham is irrelevant and avoid going into details, but your argument is a very good one.

So really, I could care less about what is default, probable, likely or simple. The simple story would be Imoen leaving the adventuring life for a stable household. I want a good story.

Good: Well-conceived character development that develops Imoen as a character.

Good: Talking about Imoen's sexuality in a plot context where it is relevant.

Bad: Writing Imoen as bisexual because we need bisexual characters in the game.

Bad: Writing about bisexuality that simply works by playing the pronoun game.

Bad and Offensive: Writing Imoen as bisexual because bi chicks are hot.


I agree completetely.

I think this point has been made a number of times in several discussions about modding (maybe even in this one. If I had the necessary determination and strength of character I would check) ? the question is not and should not be about "finding proof" in the game, it's about teling as good a story as possible.
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#376 Imrahil

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Posted 05 May 2004 - 01:02 PM

Do people engage in selective reading?

Yes, it appears that they do...

How is Imoen going to state, or show otherwise, when no one else in the game does?  How is it that not one NPC (not one!) displays these tendancies?

So, it appears that there do exist NPC's who display those tendencies - just not the ones you happen to talk to.

Huh. I missed your point. The courtesan displays these tendancies how, again?

I'm not surprised you missed the point since you left what they actually say out of my post...

"Oh, move on, then. There are girls/fellas who'd appreciate some time with ye, but I ain't one of 'em."

There are courtesans (& presumably non-courtesans, unless you assume all homosexuals in the FR become courtesans) who would "appreciate some time with" (and this is clearly meant to refer to sex) a same-sex PC. The one you happen to talk to however, would not, & asks you to "move on".

So, while the particular NPC you initiate dialogue with does not "display these tendencies," it's fairly obvious that there do exist NPC's who do display those tendencies.

Clearer now?

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Posted 05 May 2004 - 01:13 PM

It IS kind of irrelevant, though, because no matter what their intent or purpose, Bioware didn't even hint that Imoen was homosexual or bisexual.

bioWare didn't hint at her being straight, either.
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Why do I think she's BI (even though I'm tempted to argue her being lesbian just, among other reasons, to get everyone outraged)? It's my subjective, collective opinion, that's why. The Imoen I see in the game has an open mind and an open heart, and I do not think she would deny someone based soley on their gender.

Why does it seem like you're the only one who gets to hold an opinion, CS?

Several people, myself included, have said...
1) Imoen doesn't indicate she's gay
[at which point you like to point out she doesn't indicate she's straight, either, which is irrelevant if you actually pay attention to the next point]
2) People who don't indicate one way or the other tend to be straight, since the majority of the population is straight
3) Therefore, my opinion is that she's straight

You base your opinion on...
1) Imoen has an open mind & an open heart
2) People with an open mind & an open heart tend to be Bi
3) Therefore, my opinion is that she's Bi

Why is yours acceptable but ours isn't? They're both just subjective justifications for an opinion, but you seem to jump all over anyone who uses the first set of points. Your "open mind/heart = Bi" assumption is just as baseless, yet no one's telling you you aren't allowed to think that way.

I think a bit of the reason you are perceived as rude or closed-minded (I guess we can rule you out as being Bi by your own reasoning, huh?) is that when people give their reasons for thinking Imoen is straight, your "argument" comes across as "you're wrong! she's not straight!", which is why you get asked for proof - it sounds like you're stating it as fact that Imoen Cannot Be Hetero And All Other Opinions Are Wrong.

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Posted 05 May 2004 - 09:57 PM

dorotea Posted on May 5 2004, 06:47 AM QUOTE 

if you explore the option of her making the sacrifice, she makes a comment about not being pure any more.




Hmm - I think you are mixing in the Imoen romance dialog and the original Bio. There is no such thing as Imoen discussing her 'purity' in Imoen-Sarevok-PC conversations in original Bio dialogs, although Sarevok does speak about her memory of being tortured, and it is rather graphical.


After you transfer to Throne, while speaking with Sarevok in the pocket plane, one of your options is "Is there no other way of restoring you?" If you have Imoen in your party then this starts a dialog between them in which she says "I'm not as 'sweet' as you think Sarevok. And you don't deserve a second chance at life! You Killed Gorion!"

While her comment is 'not as sweet' instead of 'not being pure' still if you make her take the hit, Imoen says "I would lay down my life for [Charname] and more. In an instant. Always. Maybe one day 'brother' you'll understand what that means."

Still shows that Imoen places [CharName] very highly. That's not where I would place my siblings though.

BTW The Imoen Romance mod only exists for Shadows at this time.

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Posted 06 May 2004 - 02:20 AM

The definition of 'rude' doesn't not include 'closed-minded', so that would make it your opinion.

This is reason #1 I wasn't going to bother - because, invariably, the subject gets twisted and it becomes personal. This is not a discussion about your perceptions of me, the subject is the opinion on Imoen's sexuality (and my attempts at answering why I think the way I do and in answer to the calls for proof as to why I think the way I do - but I guess I'm the one engaging in selective reading).

When, in any of my posts, did I say I was right and you are wrong? When, in any of my posts, did I say that mine was the only opinion? (When did I say that I care the way I come across, for that matter?) This is not a debate about me (or about villifying me) - I believe in my opinion the same way you believe in yours. And, due to the medium, something invariably gets taken too seriously or the wrong way. These are only words on the screen, and if someone's going to take them the wrong way, there's nothing I can do to avoid it - perception is the law, here; I'll remind you to be literal. I'm quite disappointed that we've reached this point so soon, actually. (Love the use of "yours" and "ours", btw :rolleyes: ) For the record: My belief is that my opinion is just as "right" as yours. My god.. :wacko:

anyway..

I'm using the same arguements to refute positions as they are (un/intentionally) used to refute mine - Just that simple, because they're just that basic, and applicable to either side. The only thing I take issue with is what continues to be said: She doesn't say, so since the norm is hetero, she must be hetero (by default) ..unless there is proof.. well, there is no proof (either way). I "jump all over" that logic because it doesn't account for Imoen, or her personality, at all. I find it interesting that it is homosexuality that must be proven. Why? Because in our world it's not the norm? Because in the game world it's non-existant?

In the game world, as it was created, it should exist and be just as normal/regularly occuring as any other sexuality, but I realize that is (almost) beside the point.

Let's get something straight, though, because this IS at the heart of the matter:

How is Imoen going to state, or show otherwise, when no one else in the game does?  How is it that not one NPC (not one!) displays these tendancies?

So, it appears that there do exist NPC's who display those tendencies - just not the ones you happen to talk to.

Huh. I missed your point. The courtesan displays these tendancies how, again?

I left the courtesan's line out of my quote For No Other Reason Than it was Irrelevant to the statement I had made, prior: No one in the game demonstrates homosexuality. That would include the same coutesan who claims that there's someone but, well, s/he's not here right now. Or am I supposed to be content with that? The courtesan does not, herself, display these tendancies; my statement still stands.

So, while the particular NPC you initiate dialogue with does not "display these tendencies," it's fairly obvious that there do exist NPC's who do display those tendencies.

Not good enough, and you (should) know it.

I tried to keep the question/statement/challenge simple and you supply some convoluted example of something that's supposed to show me that I'm wrong. I feel the need to point out that it's a poor example (imo, I should add, lest this be misinterpreted) and all you can do is repeat what you said. So now that we've reached the point where it seems you've got nothing left, because you're now analyzing me, this is all I'm saying on the matter.

@ Occam's razor - I try to address all points else, as Imrahil did, I get accused of missing one. ..unless I'm missing your point, Guest.

Edited by Cybersquirt, 06 May 2004 - 02:43 AM.


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Posted 06 May 2004 - 06:12 AM

Bad and Offensive: Writing Imoen as bisexual because bi chicks are hot.


Why is this offensive?

Edited by Quitch, 06 May 2004 - 06:12 AM.