Erm... it should be on the northern edge of the map. I have no idea why you can't find it. If something messed up, you may use console. If I remember well, the code is:
CLUAConsole:MoveToArea("ARES01")
It was ARES02, but yeah, thanks, that pretty much did the trick.
Who knows, I probably have a bugged setup. I found out way too late NOT to use Big World Setup, but to do it all manually... oh well.