1)In the screen where it checks for conflicts, I had to remove some SCS2 components which it said conflict with Spell Revisions. But I don't have Spell Revisions on install list. (I just removed the SCS2 components to get it to continue the install)
2)The setup wanted Ashes of Embers in order to install the Tactics mod Anti paladin kit. I didn't want Ashes of Embers installed. (Got around it by installing one component of A of E, and it installed)
3)I had unchecked the widescreen mod, because I would put it on the end for easy reinstall. BWS installed it anyway, and the setup somehow figured out the right resolution for my monitor (a 20" widescreen). How did it do that? And can I still run it to change resolution?
4)In general there were a few mods like Item Revisions, Spell Revisions, Cursed Item Revisions, etc. that I prefer not to install. They may be part of the default choices for BWP 9.4, so I suppose the conflict/dependencies checker is looking for that even though they are not installed. Only happened with SCS2 and some tweaks (which the BWP pdf says is handled better by another mod which I didn't choose)
A couple that I missed were:
~BG2_TWEAKS/SETUP-BG2_TWEAKS.TP2~ #0 #1120 // Stores Sell Higher Stacks of Items: v9 BWP Fix
~BG2_TWEAKS/SETUP-BG2_TWEAKS.TP2~ #0 #2151 // Wear Multiple Protection Items -> No Restrictions: v9 BWP Fix
~BG2_TWEAKS/SETUP-BG2_TWEAKS.TP2~ #0 #2340 // Remove Summoning Cap for Celestials (Ardanis/GeN1e): v9 BWP Fix
Ended up installing them at the end, hope the game is still ok.

Thats about it, things ran pretty smooth. Even Tobex runs ok. Do you have to continue to use it to start up BG2?
5)Which new components from Tobex should be installed? I do have v12.
Thanks again

Here are the mods it couldn't find-
Volcano armoury 1.4
Rotb armor set 1.0
Grimuars v3.3