Oh, I didn't think you were being unreasonable, and didn't mean to suggest it. But once again, let me sum things up.What I don't like is all the "punish Elminster" hysteria here--that *doesn't* need to be in any romance. As I said, it just seems like many people hate him (without knowing too much about him--not necessarily you, but some people), and they are looking forward to "abusing" him. I like the character, and I object to this, within reason.
Elminster never appears within the romance itself, he isn't part of any plot or quest. However, he *does* have bad things happen to him in the epilogues, partially as a spoof on Edwin's original epilogue. Not death, not torture, nothing permanent. But bad things, and yes, I will enjoy them, and others will too. And yet other people will not enjoy it. That's just they way it is.
I respect your right to disagree, but I am not prepared to change those epilogues. Hopefully you won't let that keep you from enjoying the rest of the mod.