The next mod I'm gonna try out is gonna be this one, here

some questions:
1) Installing.
Currently installed in the installation order:
SoA
ToB
Official Patch
Imoen's Romance.
I have read that Tashia should be installed before Imoen, so I would presume I should uninstall Immy and go like this:
SoA
ToB
Official Patch
Baldurdash FixPack (how essential is it?)
Tashia
Can I hope this will be bug free?

2) Can the romance progress be controlled the same way as official BG2 romances - using the same variables? I know that Arnel's Nalia had some weird LoveTalk system, you could not control it or adjust it with CLUA or ShadowKeeper.
3) How are the romance conflicts solved - similarly like those catfights between A, J and V - I mean a dialogue when you have to pick one of them? Or I should not get involved with anyone else in the first place?
Again I ask, because Nalia's romance didn't really address this - I was hitting on Jaheira after marrying Nalia, phew

TIA,
jurts